FRIEND ZONE !!

assalamualaikum .. rasa mcm dah lama plak tak post kat blog nie kan (: memang lama pun kan .. last post was on feburary 2013 .. nearly 1 year blog nie berhabuk .. kesian kat blog nie .. haha .. busy lah lately .. sorry ya ..

final exam is around the corner .. dania dah ready ke ? haram jadah lah nak ready .. still preparing lagi nie .. nak relax kejap aku usha lah lappy aku nie .. tetibe terjumpe url blog lama yg dah busuk , kepam lg berhabuk nie .. kejam betul owner dia kan ..

korang apa khabar ? sihat ? sakit ? tenat ? choiii .. korang jaga diri baik - baik k .. sekarang nie malaysia dah lah sejuk nak mampos .. make sure you guys warm enough when you guys go to sleep tp jangan selesa sangat sampai subuh pun korang tak bangun , ye dak ?

niat aku nak post blog nie sebab aku teringat satu terms yg diorang panggil "friendzone" . haaa korang tahu tak ape benda alah tu ? aku pun actually tak tahu menahu pasal terms tu until aku tengok ramai plak yg update pasal friendzone nie .. aku pun tak nak ketinggalan lah kan.. kalau tak up-to-date tak urban katanya .. hahaha ..

friendzone nie kan mcm hmmm... okay okay let me put this into words .. when you freaking like this guy A LOT but this guy just anggap kau not more than bestfriends or worst just friends .. and you fucking dont know what to do because you like this guys so much that you actually follow the flow .. just friends but deep down inside you really like him ..

sucks gila babs kan ? yeahh i know .. some theory said that guys yg most alami friendzone nie daripada perempuan .. tp bagi aku tak kot .. same je .. korang pernah alami tak ? when you like this guy more than just a friend but when they introduced you to his friends and family , "oh , meet umi dania , she is a amazing girl that i ever meet , she makes me smile like an idiot when she's around and she is my best friends that i couldnt ask for more" (-_-")

like what the hell ?? biasanya yg alami friendzone nie diorang ingat better something rather than nothing .. but seriously how long can you stand ? gila makan dalam kot .. here what i got about the meaning of friend zone in urban dictionary .. 

What you attain after you fail to impress a woman you're attracted to. Usually initiated by the woman saying, "You're such a good friend". Usually associated with long days of suffering and watching your love interest hop from one bad relationship to another. Verb tense is "Friend-ed"

okay ... ignore the word "woman" .. because woman also had this friend zone thing .. seriously , we do get in friend zone okay (: once you enter this zone , like hell i can promise you is hard to get out .. some can stand this friend zone like many years .. one word #respect ! if you like them so damn much , go and get them lahh !! 

thats the proper way to act and said rather than "quit saying why you are still single and keep on updating your facebook statuses and twitter saying that where are the good people go ? STFU ! im right here in your damn fucking friend zone ! " 

see the difference when you act proper way (: lastly , please please dont love others if you dont love yourself first .. love your life and those who loves you *okay!takde kena mengena pun* kbye ! assalamualaikum .. take care readers (:

"FRIENDS"

hai blog !!! cium - cium blog ! rindunyaaa kat blog . sorry dah lama tak update . so , lepas nie aku tak nak janji apa - apa lagi pasal nak post entry lebih kerap lagi dan sebagainya . sebab aku update pun ikut mood . kalau malas memang tak sentuh lah lappy . jangan salah faham , aku rajin cuma tak ada inspirasi je nak mengupdate blog . tak apa lah blog ! kau sentiasa di hati aku . rinduku untuk mu sentiasa tersemat dalam jiwa dan sanubari ku .

oh ye ! lupa nak bagitahu ! aku dah start kerja . aik udy nie ! kata bapaknya tak bagi kerja . yup ! memang dia tak bagi aku kerja tp dia nak aku kerja kat hoteline . so , akibat dari jiwa and semangat aku yang membuak - buak nak kerja untuk membiaya hidup aku pada masa hadapan , so , aku agree je lah .

kau kerja kat mana dania ? tempat kerja lama mak aku . kat mana ? pergi tanya sendiri kat mak aku ! haha . so far okay lah . mak aku selalu pesan , dania dah nampak macam - macam jenis manusia kan ? jangan terikut - ikut sangat ! kawan je ! must have boundaries and... bla bla bla :) love you mum !

i really - really agree with mum ! yup kawan mesti ada boundaries ! aku nie friendly kalau dgn orang - orang yg aku dah kenal . tapi aku sentiasa set kan batas . setakat gurau - gurau tu yup aku memang selalu kenakan orang . tp aku memang ada boundaries ! kau tak boleh let your friend 'touch' you ! , friends dont have to pretend to be someone else just so u like them , and so on..

like seriously , friends dont do all that except besties . itu lain cerita okay ? now we are talking bout friends . there's big different between friend and best friend . there's like 3 or 4 best friends i have . and all just friends . even best friend dont talk each other frequently . maksud friend bagi aku is someone that u know-and-dont-really-know . faham tak ? u can have fun together , talking to each other and so on but i dont really tell them bout all my problem or what i felt .

for example , kalau tayar diorang pancit or apa , and they are your besties and friend . kalau dia kawan aku , mesti aku cakap , wei jap jap . jap lagi aku sampai . kau kat mana ? kenapa boleh pancit ? bla bla bla . kalau besties aku ? i will say , wei cibai ! kau nie tak reti service kereta ke ? berapa kali aku suruh kau kan ? kau kat mana ? bla bla bla . haha . siapa yg kenal aku , mesti tahu kan ? :)

so okay , a friend doesnt always kena macam tu kan . just bila aku berkawan , i dont like to expose myself too much . aku lagi interested to know them . and i can tell if that someone is trying to impress me or something . trust me . i know . kalau ada orang macam tu im like " owh yeke ? , i see , yeke ? " mood . seriously , tak yah wei . just layan macam kawan - kawan lain je .

okay , enough pasal aku . some friend are meant to be a friend but some are meant to be dump ! u know what i meant right ? okay banyak jenis kawan yg kau patut tinggalkan je . first , pontianak yg dahagakan energy korang . apa tu ? okay macam nie . some people akan buat korang more stressful , more pening , korang nak borak dgn diorang pun tak ada mood and so on . this kind of j***a** fikir macam korang tak ada life and tak ada benda lain selain daripada facebooking all day long and bagi kucing makan dan lain - lain selain daripada make them feel better about themselves .

this kind of people biasanya muram , bermasalah , emotional dan sebagainya . sadly , no matter how much you listen to them , tak kira betapa support nya korang kat diorang nie , betapa banyak nya korang dah berkorban untuk diorang nie , nothing seem to worth it . just fikir lah a friend who always take , take and take but not give . then , tanya diri korang kenapa nak offer diri korang kat orang - orang macam nie ? kalau korang still sama , meh bagi link facebook korang . aku add .

second , aku ! aku ! aku !! okay tengok macam tu pun dah tahu kan orang yg macam macam mana nie . orang yang macam nie dia expected more from others to give kat dia than dia bagi kat orang . for examples , time dia susah korang pun ringankan tulang korang tolong dia . tapi bila time korang susah , semua benda dia tak boleh tolong . example seterusnya bila kawan korang yang perangai macam nie , bila diorang datang rumah korang , semua kena perfect ikut taste dia . 

masakkan kena masuk kat tekak dia , kucing kena letak kat luar sebab dia tak suka kucing dan sebagainya . mula - mula boleh lah korang layankan , tapi , dah lama - lama korang sendiri akan bosan kan ? korang just nak jerit kat muka diorang , This Is My House , My Rule !! haha . this type of 'friend' biasanya dia hidup dalam dunia dia sendiri . like Teletubbies ! got their own house ! their own planet ! and got that baby sun . tak logik langsung matahari ada muka baby kan ? gosh ! aku dah terpedaya .

kerjasama , give and take , bagi peluang dan sebagainya memang tak ada dalam kamus hidup diorang . seriously ! so kalau korang ada 'kawan' macam nie , apa patut korang buat ? korang kena sedaya upaya jarakkan untuk komunikasi dgn diorang . so what korang tak ada kawan macam nie ? bukan mati pun . biarlah korang tak ada kawan , janji korang tak makan hati . kan kan ?

last but not least , Penipu ! fool me once , shame on you . fool me twice , shame on me ! jadi kenapa korang still offerkan diri korang kat orang - orang macam nie ? F*** them ! if someone keep on repeating telling you lies , talam dua muka , backstabber lah erti kata lain dan sebagainya , take my advise . Dump Them !! Penipu paling teruk ! pontianak yang dahagakan energy and aku ! aku ! aku ! menyebabkan korang sakit hati je . 

tapi penipu ? damn ! they can cause moral problem . so kena bukak mata korang luas - luas and the great thing is korang memang ada kuasa nak buat semua nie ! korang memang tak perlukan orang - orang macam nie kat dalam hidup korang . daripada korang dok meroyan sebab kehilangan orang - orang yg macam nie . korang boleh savekan tempat untuk orang yang lagi baik dari diorang dalam hidup korang .

apa korang patut buat ? just slow - slow kurangkan komunikasi korang dgn orang - orang macam nie . and accept kawan yang lagi awesome gila pork dari orang - orang macam nie . peace :)